From Trials to Triumph: My Journey as a Lifestyle Blogger and Entrepreneur
Looking back at my life, it feels like a tapestry woven with resilience, ambition, and countless lessons.
My story is about navigating motherhood, rediscovering myself, and chasing dreams that once felt out of reach.
The Beginning of My Blogging Journey
Nine years ago, I began my blogging journey to express myself and share my world. I loved writing about my life, my thoughts, and the lessons I was learning. It was exciting to create content that resonated with others, and I quickly realized the power of storytelling.
Around the same time, I started a business selling thrift baby clothes and fashion accessories. My favourite products were the ones made from African fabrics, which reminded me of my roots and the vibrant culture I’m proud to be a part of. I did this alongside blogging and dreamt of making it big and living from the income I made from these things I enjoyed doing.
I began exploring the idea of creating a life that aligned with my values. I wanted the flexibility to care for my children, financial independence to support them comfortably, and fulfilment from doing what I loved.
My experience in blogging and social media management led me to leap into another passion: social media management. I started working from home, helping non-profits and charities create impactful content. It gave me purpose and income to keep pushing my passion for blogging and business until the 'blow'.
But as life often does, challenges arose.
The Struggles: Motherhood and a Toxic Relationship
Motherhood is beautiful, but it demands so much of you. When I had my kids, many things changed. I had to work on my dreams side by side raising them. At the same time, I was navigating the emotional toll of a toxic relationship. It drained me in ways I couldn’t fully articulate, leaving little energy for my passions. I took long and short breaks from blogging and building my business.
That's how I became inconsistent at blogging and my business. Some days, I felt like I was losing myself—my identity, my creativity, and my dreams. But deep down, a small voice kept telling me not to give up. I would do what I could when I could, and it still gave me so much joy. I would look back and wish I had done more to achieve better. But I still cherished the little efforts I made.
Reconnecting With My Passion
Eventually, I found the courage to walk away from that toxic chapter of my life. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary. Blogging had always been my safe space—a place where I could be myself and connect with others. Blogging got me out of depression once and deciding to push my blog once more made me feel empowered.
I'm pushing deeper into my career as a social media manager for social change and rebuilding my business. It feels amazing to no longer have toxicity and have power over aspects of my life again while doing the things I love doing.
The Vision: Building My Dream Life
Now, I’m in a new chapter of my life. I’m working hard to turn my passions into a thriving career. My goal is to build a successful blog, grow my YouTube channel, and relaunch my business. I want to create a brand that inspires ambitious women, especially moms like me, to dream big and go after what they want.
I’m also planning for the future. I dream of a "soft life" where I can play golf on Mondays and help others achieve their dreams. I would love to inspire other ambitious African women to do the same.
Embracing the Journey
I’ve learned that life doesn’t have to be perfect to be inspiring. My story is far from finished, but I’m proud of the progress I’ve made. Every challenge has shaped me, and every success has reminded me of what’s possible.
Through my blog and YouTube channel (as well as my other social media platforms), I’m committed to sharing my journey authentically—my wins, my lessons, and even my struggles. Because I know there are women out there, just like me, who need to hear this:
*Your dreams are valid, your voice matters, and it’s never too late to create the life you deserve.*
This is my journey. And I can’t wait to see where it takes me next.
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