Today we need to talk about the type of men we let into our lives as African women. For a long time now we kept repeating certain mistakes our elders made because they didn't know better. But now we have to see the light and follow it.

It is essential to break that pattern of dating the worse category of men in your life (I feel like a pastor now). You can do this by avoiding this category of men.

Click here to watch the interesting video I made on this topic instead.

African Women, Stop Dating These Type Of Men

Guys who give you conditions to marry you

If they tell you that you should get pregnant before they marry you, please avoid them. Except that you are at a stage where you are ready for and want a baby already. A man is not obliged to marry you when you have a baby for him.

Don't listen to men who give you conditions before marriage even if it is your old or long-time boyfriend.

Guys who are dead broke and don't have a project in the pipeline

When a guy is broke and doesn't make any efforts to shape his future or use his potential then you should avoid him.

You need a man that can take care of you. Money is not everything in a relationship but it determines if your relationship will survive or not. So take note.

You can struggle and be patient with a guy who has nothing now but is on the road to making it in the near future. Being broke is not a crime but you need money to make your relationship graduate to the next level. What if you get pregnant? How do you take care of the baby? How do you even get married if he can't make money to pay your bride price?

Please, sis, avoid broke guys who are not making any effort to secure their future.

Guys that tell you they can't choose between you and another girl they are dating

If you meet a guy who tells you this, run for your dear life because he is a heartless man. Even if he says he loves you so much.

When a man loves a woman he doesn't put her through the trauma of trying to compete with another woman. And to imagine that he tells you this to your face! OMG.

When he can't decide you should be the one to leave his confused state of mind and not join him in ruining your life and wasting your time.

I shed more light on this topic in my video. You can click here to watch it and learn more.

So ladies, value yourselves enough to avoid or remove this kind of man from your lives. They are not good for you and you will go through a lot of hell if you keep staying with them.