Life in Tangui Cameroon | Our stay so far
Hi guys. Hope you are doing well.
We've been on holiday in Tangui, Cameroon at my mom's for a while now and it's been great so far.
I needed a break from my usual life in Yaoundé and I'm glad I had the chance to do this at this moment.
Currently it's the long term holiday in Cameroon so the kids and I are visiting my mom for a while. Other members of the family are here too so it's a family reunion holiday. It's been fun and memory filled do far.
As I mentioned in my previous post, I've been through a lot lately emotionally and I was even feeling depressive. Being here has been a good way to rest and reset my mind and body for a better life.
Tangui is a village in the Littoral region of Cameroon 🇨🇲 and it's the source of the mineral water brand called 'Source Tangui'. It's a rural area so life here is different from that of Yaoundé which is an urban area.
My highlights of my time spent here has been harvesting and eating groundnuts from the farm, peeling cassava, breathing fresh and clean air, going jogging on a road with lots of vegetation around it, reuniting and catching up with family. Thus area is a hot zone so it's been a challenge to manage the heat especially with the kids. I'm grateful that there's been more rain falling these days and so the weather is less hot.
Here are a few pictures of our stay in Tangui, Cameroon.
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| A few days after our arrival. I was tired and feeling overwhelmed at this point. I needed to rest. |
Planning my content creation after taking a few days to rest.
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| Got the zeal to workout again |
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| Eating snacks I love 💖 |
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| Roasting and eating fresh corn from the farm |
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| Me in action |
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| I've been drinking a lot of lemon grass and lemon tea and I love it 💚 |
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| Using YouTube video to workout |
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| Making progress with loosing my postpartum belly |
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| Boiled fresh groundnuts |
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| My little one learning to thresh corn 🌽 |
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| Eating groundnuts |
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| Cooking khoki corn 🌽 |
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| Drying bitter leaf |
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| Drying groundnuts |
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| Eating Khoki corn after a long time |
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| Peeling cassava. "Cassava party ' |
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| Me in action |
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| Groundnuts harvesting |
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| We off-rooted the groundnuts plants and brought it home to cut off the groundnuts. |
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| Getting ready to go do my hair |
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| At the hair dresser's. Click here to see the result. |
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| My brother handed down his toy cars to my kids so I had to wash them before we take them to Yaoundé. |
This break has relieved me of lots of accumulated stress and I feel much more rejuvenated.
I made a series of vlogs on my YouTube channel of our stay so you can visit by clicking this link to watch or search Ngumabi on YouTube to watch. Please do subscribe when you visit my channel. Thanks 👍🏾.
Thanks for reading and share with me your thoughts or when was the last time you took such a break or went for a holiday?
Long time no chat | Life update
Hello guys,
How have you been? Long time no chat.
Life has been full of changes and I've been through a rollercoaster of emotions.
I recently took a break from content creation and it did make me feel better. Though I feel like resting some more I don't also want to get too comfortable not creating. So I'm back.
I recently lost a long time friend and it reminded me to always choose to live without regrets. Do and achieve the things you want to because a fulfilled life what is important at the end.
Hopefully we get to chat about life more regularly and also share life lessons for aspiring African women on this space. I really want to focus on growing my blog and YouTube channel now so content will be really direct and practical. It will be from my experience and knowledge so I'm planning to do more life updates and chats about topics affecting especially aspiring African women and the world in general.
Do stay tuned 😊.
How has life been? Hope it has been treating you well.
How to attract your dream life through manifestation
If you want to live your dream life, you have to start with determination, hard work, patience and then manifestation.
Manifestation is the process of bringing your desires into reality. It's about tapping into the power of your mind and using the laws of attraction to manifest your dreams.
The law of attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, you can bring
positive or negative experiences into your life.
For example, if you want to attract more money, you would focus on thoughts and feelings of
abundance and prosperity. If you want to attract more love, you would focus on thoughts and
feelings of love and happiness.
The key to manifestation is to get clear about what you want and to focus on your desires with all of
your heart and soul. The more clear and focused you are, the more likely you are to attract your
desires into your life.
Here are some tips to help you get started with manifestation.
How to attract your dream life through manifestation
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1. Get clear about what you want.
The first step to manifesting your dreams is to get clear about what you want. What do you want to
achieve? What do you want to create? What do you want to experience?
When you get clear about what you want;
2. Focus on your desires with all of your heart and soul.
The more focused you are on your desires, the more likely you are to manifest them into your life.
So, make sure to focus on your desires with all of your heart and soul.
3. Visualize what you want.
See your desired outcome in your mind's eye. Visualize what it would feel like to achieve your goals.
See yourself living your dream life.
4. Take action towards your goals.
In order to manifest your dreams, you need to take action towards them. This means taking steps to achieve your goals and making moves towards your desired outcome.
5. Believe that your dreams will come true.
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When you believe in yourself and your ability to manifest your desires, it becomes easier to make
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Here is how to boss up and change your life ambitious African woman
Here is how to boss up and change your life ambitious African woman
The world is yours for the taking, African woman. You are strong, determined and capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. Here are four tips to help you boss up and change your life:
1. Believe in yourself
Believing in yourself is the first step to bossing up and changing your life. You have to think that
you are capable of achieving your goals and that you deserve to achieve them. When you believe in
yourself, you are more likely to take the necessary actions to make your dreams a reality.
2. Set goals and create a plan
The second step to bossing up and changing your life is to set goals and create a plan. You need to
know what you want to achieve and create a roadmap to help you get there. Setting goals and
planning will help you stay focused and motivated on your journey to success.
Related: How to set your goals
3. Take action
The third step to bossing up and changing your life is to take action. You need to put your plan into
action and take the steps necessary to achieve your goals. Taking action will help you move closer
to your goals and make your dreams a reality.
4. Be persistent
The fourth and final step is to keep on pushing because your life won't change in a day. Changing your life is a journey so wake up every day with the desire to take action towards a better future for yourself.
How to have a growth mindset for success
How to have a growth mindset for success
Your mindset matters. Alot.
Your mindset is the foundation for everything else in you rlife. It's the way you think about yourself, your capabilities, and your potential.
A growth mindset is vital for success.
People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve with effort. They view setbacks as learning opportunities. They understand tha tintelligence is not fixed, and that they can get smarter
with time and experience.
People with a fixed mindset, on the other hand, believe that their abilities are set in stone. They see effort as a waste of time, and view set backs as proof of their inadequacy.
A growth mindset is important for success in every area of your life. It's especially important in
situations where you're trying something new or facing a challenge.
Here are three ways to develop a growth mindset:
1.Recognize that intelligence is not fixed.
2.Understand that effort leads to progress.
3.Embrace challenges as opportunities to learn and grow.
When you have a growth mindset, you seee every situation as an opportunity to learn and grow. You
become open to new challenges, and you're not afraid to fail.
How to stay focused on your goals
How to stay focused on your goals
It can be difficult to stay focused on your goals, especially if you are facing setbacks. However, there are a few things you can do to stay motivated and on track.
One way to stay focused is to have a clear vision of what you want to achieve. Write down your goals and what you need to do to reach them. This will remind you to stay on track when things get tough.
It is also important to remember why you are pursuing your goals. What are your motivations? What will achieving your goals do for you and your life?
Keeping your reasons for pursuing your goals in mind will help you stay focused when things get tough.
Finally, don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. There is no shame in admitting that you need assistance to reach your goals. Talk to a friend, family member, or even a professional for help and support.
You may lose focus from time to time but don't get discouraged because of that. Just get back on track and focus on your goal again.
3 hard things about being a boss lady
Being a boss lady is not all glamour and glory. It comes with its own set of challenges that can be difficult to navigate. From learning how to delegate tasks, to managing employee expectations, there are many hard things about being a boss lady that can be difficult to manage. In this article, we will discuss ten of the most common hard things about being a boss lady and offer some tips on how to handle them.
3 hard things about being a boss lady
- Being a boss lady means being in control of one's life and this can be hard to maintain all the time.
- Boss ladies are independent women and have to face issues most of the time by themselves.
- They are sometimes wrongly judged because of their independence, confidence and relationships.
Being a boss lady requires a strong mindset and confidence to live your vision and life on your own terms. If you are ready for that then take the bold step and become a boss lady.
How to act like a lady and think like a boss
One of the most important things you can do to be successful in business is to think like a boss. This can be a difficult balance to achieve, but it is possible.
Here are a few tips on how to act like a lady and think like a boss
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- Be sure to educate yourself on the latest industry news and trends. This will give you the credibility you need to be successful. To think like a boss you have to be knowledgeable about your industry and your activities.
- Develop a paying skill. Have a skill which can fetch you money. Whether it is a skill to run or manage a business or a skill that can get you a job directly. Bosses are skilled people.
- Do feminine things to bring out and maintain your feminine energy. Make time to dress up and take care of yourself as a woman should to keep boosting your feminity. Spending time with your female friends is also a good way to maintain this energy.
- Don't be afraid to dream big, speak with confidence about your plans and make your presence felt even when you are in a group of men.
- Determine what you want, and set goals to achieve.
- Make moves to achieve your goals and stay disciplined.
By following these tips, you can learn how to act like a lady and think like a boss. With practice, you
will be able to find the perfect balance between the two.
What motivates me to share my life experience | Ngumabi
I just saw a post on YouTube made by Nigerian YouTuber Dyna Ekwueme about taking a break from YouTube because she's feeling overwhelmed. If you are one of her followers then you know that she recently moved to Saudi Arabia to meet her husband. She didn't mention what exactly is making her overwhelmed but going through the comment section I saw a comment of a lady who said it can be overwhelming to live abroad without the support you usually get back at home in Nigeria. She went ahead to mention that she's a mother of one and she also feels overwhelmed.
This comment reminded me of another comment I read where the lady asked how others had the time to create content consistently for their businesses, run their businesses and deal with family at the same time. She mentioned that she doesn't have the time to do it all and add content creation to it all. It must also be an overwhelming situation for her.
Why am I saying all this?
A few days ago I also felt overwhelmed by content creation and motherhood and other stuff. I feel better now but I must say reading such comments where people are sharing their reality gave me strength because I felt less alone in the situation.
This is the reason why it's important to me to be authentic with my content. It surely helps someone feel normal especially in the rear of social media where people show mostly the perfect side of their lives.
I remember when a new follow on my Facebook page made a comment about me a while ago. He said he admires what I do but I need to apply some makeup and wear better outfits to pull attention. Funny enough he's right. And it's something I can do. But that's not my objective.
I am a lifestyle blogger and I love sharing parts of my reality to inspire others and help them relate to what I share. I share my current stage of life and as my life improves the visual of my content will improve with it.
Of course I strive to improve the visual of my content but it's still important for me to share my reality with you guys.
We get overwhelmed from time to time by something and it feels really good to hear someone share their experience about what we are facing.
That's why I share my experience and knowledge. Hopefully it helps someone out there.
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I share my journey of personal development in my lifestyle and mindset to inspire ambitious women to break free from societal expectations and craft their unique path to happiness and success for a more fulfilling future
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"By doing what you love, you inspire the hearts of others."
"Make your life a dream and a dream a reality."
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