I watched a nollywood movie called "The Art Of Letting Go" by Bolaji Ogunmola. It's an interesting movie and you can watch it on YouTube. This movie is unique because of the story.
It's a love story but not the usual happy ending. It tells the story of a lady who fell in love with a man who didn't love her enough to be serious with her but he kept showing up when he wanted her, her feelings didn't matter to him, and and he dated other women without remorse. He wasn't serious about her but he will say things that will give her hope or keep her hooked like "I can't let you go", "we are getting to know each other", "I want to wake up next to you", "You are special".
Why You Need To Avoid That 'Special' Type Of Love
The reason why I'm bringing this movie up is because these are the kind of relationships that make us women lose their minds. We fall so in love with this guy and want to grab every opportunity to hang in there though we are being bread crumbed. And when i say bread crumbed, I mean we are given less than the bare minimum in the relationship. We may know that he doesn't love us but we love them so much that we are ready to let them have their way all the time - just to have a piece of them or to feel worthy of their time.
Usually this man fits perfectly in the description of your dream man in terms of the physical look, intelligence and charisma and they are usually hard to forget or let go. Reason why in the movie the lady had a hard time resisting him.
If this story seems familiar to you or if you are in such a relationship then you need to make a real decision to leave because it will only make you mor miserable, make you feel unworthy and uncapable to make any decision for yourself. Your love is not enough to sustain the relationship for the both of you.
Such a relationship is like a drug that only takes from you and doesn't give back. even if you give it all you got this person will still not love more.
So it's time to think about yourself more; Treat yourself the way you expect this person to treat you. Give all the love to yourself and not him. Withdraw from him and keep your distance; This is the hardest part but you can do it. You are strong. Make yourself priority and treat yourself well. Don't accept the disrespect and lack of consideration anymore. You are too beautiful and worthy to be treated anyhow by anybody.
You got this.
Talk to you in my next one. Take care
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