Today, I want us to discuss where we need to level up as African men and women when it comes to relationships.

Everyone has flaws or weaknesses for sure. But let's discuss that weakness as a group.

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Who Needs To Step Up In Relationships? African Men Or African Women?

Romance

African men are not very romantic beings. Only a few of them catch the romance fever. It's true that the number of romantic men is increasing but they are still not so many of them. 

African women are more romantic than African men. They think, eat and drink romance. It begins when they start reading romantic novels and watching romantic movies. They begin to imagine ways to make their relationship romantic.

Lies

I think African men lie more than African women because from the beginning of the relationship most of them tell lies to get these women to date them. And they keep telling these lies to keep being with the lady.

It's true that African women tell lies to men to get money or favours but they are not as much as that of the men.

Cheating

Some people say women cheat more than men but I don't think so. 

We see men cheat more often than women. Even though women can be very secretive, it doesn't mean they cheat more. They are just smooth criminals 🤭 when it comes to cheating and the way they hide what they do makes people think that many other women cheat as well. 

But in my opinion, the men cheat more than the women.

Loyalty

African Women are more loyal in relationships. They go into relationships most times believing that they have found the man of their life only to find out later that he isn't even with them or he isn't thinking about a future with her.

So African women are more loyal in relationships.

Dressing

Let's give it to the ladies and call it a day, ok. The ladies put more effort in their looks and appearance more than the men.

Violence

African men oh, come and take your trophy🏆. African men are more violent physically and emotionally in relationships. 

They feel they have the right to abuse these women and most of them hide under the pretext of being the head of the family and authority which is wrong.

Finance

Another trophy for the men. They are the providers and breadwinners of the relationship most of the time. Women often come in a supporting role. 

After all these points I think that African men need to step up on a number of things. Stop cheating, telling lies, dress better, be more loyal to your woman and stop being violent towards women. 

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