The one thing I think of for African women is "strength".

African women are the strongest women I know. Their strength is seen in their capacity to persist, be patient and fight for what's best for their loved ones.

But they don't or hardly fight for themselves. Or they just feel too weak to fight for themselves. Or they don't just feel worthy of it.

Whatever the reason may be, African women need to stop thinking low of themselves and start applying their strength to their needs, goals and personal achievements. 

Know that you are worthy as an African woman and that your dreams and aspirations are valid. Don't give them up for anything. Pursue your dreams, and increase your value. You are worth more than making babies and staying in the kitchen. Your limit is endless and exceeds the walls of motherhood and being a housewife. 

So start believing in yourself today. Love yourself enough to take action on your dreams. be an example to your children.

I hope this post encourages you to take the bold step.