Ouch! Does that hurt? Another strong statement.

I hope you didn't come here to hear soft words about how much of a victim you have been. Because this post is about to be hard on you (don't say I didn't warn you).

You can't keep playing the victim. So all these bad things happened to you but look around you - life is still going on. Life or time waits for no one. For how many years are you going to keep looking for pity in the eyes of those around you? How long do you want to wallow in self-pity? 

Because yes life isn't fair. And unfortunately, it may never be fair. That's the cold truth. Someone will always have an easier way out or into something. if you want to spend the rest of your life talking about that or being angry about that instead of working hard to become as privileged as others are then it's your time you are wasting. It's your loss!

Wake up from your victimhood and start working towards breaking the odds of your life or situation. Stop complaining all day about how marginalized, and unfairly treated and begin to make a name for yourself through your hard work.

STOP feeling comfortable under the protection of being a victim. Come out of victimhood and create a journey or history for yourself that will oblige those who marginalised you to CREATE A SEAT FOR YOU ON THE TABLE. 

Take the challenge to improve yourself. Make it a challenge to qualify for the things you want to achieve despite your circumstance or situation.

Victimhood only makes you miserable and vulnerable.

STOP PLAYING VICTIM!!

Start thinking like a VICTOR!!! THE VICTORIOUS WORK HARD ON DEVELOPING THEMSELVES AND IMPROVING THEIR SITUATION.

They don't let the obstacles they face bring them down but rather work hard to succeed in life.