Often times we get angry or upset with others and blame them for making us angry. It might be something they said or did or even insinuated that made us furious.
But there is a saying that goes ' No one can make you feel inferior/angry without your permission. Have you heard that quote before?
The first time I did hear it I said it was all lies. I believed that people say things to hurt you and it is their fault that you feel upset.
The first time I did hear it I said it was all lies. I believed that people say things to hurt you and it is their fault that you feel upset.
But it took me a long time to also realise that when you get upset, it's because you let what they said to sink in and make you upset.
Some people are just naturally mean so if you let what they say or do affect you then you are only suffering for nothing because they will probably never regret what they did.
Sounds like a hard pill to swallow but letting the negative energy from others into your life stands in the way of your happiness.
Some people are just naturally mean so if you let what they say or do affect you then you are only suffering for nothing because they will probably never regret what they did.
Sounds like a hard pill to swallow but letting the negative energy from others into your life stands in the way of your happiness.
It's hard to control your feelings but with time you learn how to not let certain things get to you.
It's like developing a tough skin that makes it hard for you to get angry easily because your happiness is worth more than other people's thoughts and opinions.
People will always have something mean or bad to say to you. Just don't let them project their fears and insecurities on you.
My Look
I decided to play with black and white and I really love how it turned out with this look.
It's a cute look for work, church or any formal occasion with a touch of femininity.
It's a cute look for work, church or any formal occasion with a touch of femininity.
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